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Comment on Feelers and Thinkers by Benjamin Steele

Benjamin Steele — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 11:26:52 +0000

For an INFP, the Thinking function is both their inferior and their aspirational. Feeling types strongly feel the conflict between Feeling and Thinking.

They may try to deny the Thinking funciton all together, but eventually many Feeling types will want to try to develop it. This sense of lacking this ability can even make it an obsession and the person may overcompensate… I know I have (because I was raised with parents who were strong in their Thinking).

Comment on Feelers and Thinkers by Karen

Karen — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 18:49:11 +0000

I like your post. I am an ENFP, but I am 50/50 on the feeler/thinker scores. I am a manager, and do not like the fact that my feelings get in the way when trying to manage people. I also respond to things emotionally, rather than logically.

I have learned to step back and try to take the emotion out of my thoughts, and it is hard, but doable. I find myself bouncing my thoughts and emails off of my thinker friends before I respond to a situation, because I know that my judgment gets clouded when I take something personally… even if it wasn’t personal.

Anywoo. Great post. I understand what you mean.

Comment on Dumbass. by Noel

Noel — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 09:36:10 +0000

You really really should have.

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Comment on Dumbass. by Angela

Angela — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 08:22:48 +0000

You SHOULD have said that to him!

Comment on Blogging OCD by Jay

Jay — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 03:23:40 +0000

Hahah. That’s kind of the reason why I kept going after Blog 365. I didn’t want to see any blips because I knew that if I started it’d give me a reason to keep skipping days. Oh well. Good run while it lasted, eh?

Comment on My Bones Are Tired by Angela

Angela — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 07:17:57 +0000

I’ve been super tired lately, too, taking naps and sleeping in really late. Maybe it’s going around lol

Comment on What I Would Say To You Now by Angela

Angela — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 06:18:41 +0000

Sounds like you have a lot to say to some of your friends. Sheesh…. I know I hold my tongue around my friends sometimes, too. Sometimes it’s just easier not to say anything than risk losing a special friendship.

Comment on If You Only Knew by What I Would Say To You Now « Off in my own little world…

What I Would Say To You Now « Off in my own little world… — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 05:10:37 +0000

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Comment on People Die, Ok? by Jay

Jay — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 23:36:44 +0000

Was reflecting on the same thing earlier today. I’ve been in a bit of an opposite situation, myself.

I recall back to high school where there was this guy who ended up with a terminal illness and died soon after. When this guy was alive he made it a point to be a general asshole to me and berate me for being nerdy. A lot of people were in mourning, but I kind of just felt cold. A few people asked me how I could feel that way, but really if that person couldn’t be a decent person to me while he was alive, I don’t see why I would suddenly start missing him.

Death happens. It can be sad, but in the end all we can do is carry on and do better with the people that are living.